Thursday, November 26, 2009

Praise God from whom All blessings flow...

You know the holidays are here when it is time to make buckeyes!
I have spent a lot of time in the kitchen over the past few days...
baking muffins, making buckeyes, apple and pork sausage stuffing, pecan green beans, baked artichoke dip...all of the goodies that go around the thanksgiving table...
The kids helped me with the buckeyes. We even dipped raspberries and banana slices in our leftover dark chocolate...delicious!
Thanksgiving is one of my favorite days of the year. I was long overdue for a visit with my family. This year we went out to my sister's house in Saline for an early (noon)
Thanksgiving dinner.
Berlyn was well-loved. Natalie snagged her first, but all of her cousins and aunts and uncles, and her grammy jo wanted to get a piece of her sweetness.
Brayden and Wyatt---two peas in a pod.
(aren't they handsome little dudes?)
My brother Greg and his fiance Sonn
My nephew and niece (Mitchell and Madison)
let's gather around
(we were blessed to have my Gram and Matt's Grandma join us too)
(and a surprise visit from my cousins Meg and Beth who were able to meet Berlyn for the first time)
One of the best parts of Thanksgiving (besides the food) is being with my family.
Here's my brothers and sisters and I:
(Me, Jeff, Sarah, Greg and Emily)
It's times like this that I am so thankful I come from a large family...
It's one of the reason I wanted a large family of my own (if i was younger, i would have a 4th in a hearbeat!)...for my kids to grow up with siblings, so that they could experience life and the holidays the same.
because we always have a lot of loud and a lot of fun when we are together... Always. (my sister sarah, in gray, is almost 6 months we are all doing the "prego" pose...
but she looks much cuter than any of us)
I look forward to this day for months.
Siblings with spouses
Mama Jo with her kids
and all the carter kids with their families.
Too much fun...that doesn't last long enough...
before we are off to our Thanksgiving Dinner Round 2
(5pm with the Schrieber side)
back to Macomb...for more turkey and more fun with more family.
Aidan, Jackson and Brayden playing the Wii
Abigail and Brooke
Berlyn going with the flow...
taking in all the scents and sounds of the season for the first time.
She was a trooper...such a busy, packed day and she did so well.
and for the second year in a row, the kids enjoyed decorating gingerbread houses
(I feel a tradition coming on here)
This year Brookie did not want any help or advice.
She wanted to frost and decorate her house all by herself.
I am not sure if more candy ended up on their houses or in their tummies.
Great job boys!
And probably the highlight of our day was born out of the heart of my husband...
Two days before Thanksgiving he approached me with the idea of making lunches and taking them downtown Detroit on Thanksgiving day to pass out to the homeless or those in need.

In theory, I thought this was a great idea and I love his passion and his servant's heart. But, I must admit there was part of me that was wondering if Thanksgiving day was really a good day to do this. I already knew I had a lot of cooking/prep-work ahead of me for our long day of traveling back and forth for two Thanksgiving dinners. I loved the idea but was thinking that it just might be too much to fit into one day. While I wanted to do the Detroit lunch thing, I really had dismissed it from being in our day's agenda.
And Thanksgiving morning I woke up early so that I could get started in the kitchen before we had to leave for Saline by 10:30am. Before I started, I took a few minutes to have some quiet time and in my devotional reading for the day...I began to get convicted to the core. God's timing is no coincidence and I am so thankful that this reading was given to me at just this time...on just this day.

In this day's reading, Spurgeon references Ecclesiastes 9:10
"Whatsoever thy hand findeth to do, do it with thy might."

He describes whatever "thy hand findeth to do" as things that are possible...and then describes the many things our heart findeth to do, while useful, as things which we never actually do.
He then says that "ONE GOOD DEED IS MORE WORTH THAN A THOUSAND BRILLIANT THEORIES." That we shouldn't wait for great opportunities, for perfect timing, or for deeper spiritual maturity...but to serve God now..."to endeavor now to bring forth fruit." To do it promptly and not fritter away our life thinking about what we intend to do tomorrow....that no one ever served God by doing things tomorrow and if we honor Christ and are blessed, it is by the things we do today...And by doing it with all our might- throwing our soul into it for Jesus.

This devotional reading was short and my heart was convicted instantaneously. When Darcy woke up, I gave him a thumbs-up and said "let's do it! I don't care how it's done, but we must do it today!" I told him about my reading and we got to work. He had already printed up a note with scripture and a Happy Thanksgiving blessing on it that was to be attached to each bag. He ran up to Kroger and bought some groceries and it became a family affair.
Grandma made all of the sandwiches and the kids helped put everything into all of the bags.
On our way out to Saline, we detoured off the highway and started randomly driving through the streets of Detroit. We prayed that God would lead us to those in need. I could write an entire post on just this experience alone. I immediately felt the Lord working in and through this entire situation. I felt he led us to each and every individual we encountered. It was beautiful. My heart broke for Detroit...a city and a people marred and broken. What we were doing didn't touch even a fraction of those who are in need...but I know a little bit of light is stronger than the darkness and we were offering a little light.
After our dinner in Saline, we headed back to Macomb and stopped once again downtown Detoit to distribute the last of our lunches.
It was a simple act. I know we are not supposed to boast about our good deeds, but this was a reflection of my husband's heart. It also pointed out some of my own weaknesses (having great ideas and intentions but not acting on them...seeing a need but not always acting upon it in a prompt manner...I also learned the importance of supporting and encouraging my husband more with his ideas and plans). And if sharing this story spurs others on to share God's love, do good deeds, and put their own intentions into action, then it was worth sharing.
Groceries: $23.00
Mouths fed: 22
Being the hands and feet of Jesus: priceless
Thanksgiving night, while tucked into our bed, Darc and I agreed that this was one of our best Thanksgivings yet.
Much to be thankful for.
I really can't think of anything to complain about.
Life is good.
The things that matter- I have.
I have more than enough.

Praise God from whom all blessings flow.
Praise Him all creatures here below
Praise Him above ye heavenly hosts
Praise Father, Son, and Holy Ghost.


  1. That is soooo cool - and, I think that last one just might be your Christmas card! Beautiful!

  2. Wonderful memories made! I love the picture of you and your siblings - especially the candid one of you all laughing. Reminds me of my siblings when we were all together.

    Beautiful! Oh, the lesson you have communicated and taught your kiddos through your giving. Thank you for the reminder!

  3. What an incredible, laughter, reunion, serving, gratitude, life lessons, obedience. I need to read this post several more times to fully take it in. So proud of you for allowing the Spirit to "interrupt" your plans to love those who are in need. Just beautiful.

  4. I don't have words to describe how I feel after reading your BLOG. Very emotional, tears of joy for the love that you and family has for the Lord, tears of sorrow for those in need and lost, and tears of thankfulness for all of my own family.

    Much Love !!!
    Mama Jo

  5. Great post, of course I love seeing your family and your pics, but love the fact that you listened to God (and Darcy HEHE)

  6. Love it! You guys are setting such an awesome example for your children. I guarantee they will remember that day forever!

  7. Thank you for your inspiring post about how you listened to God...and followed through with what he told you to do! You were prayed for today by a Christian mom of teenagers just passing through on "blogger next". :-) I especially said an extra little prayer for Brooke since my 14 yr. old is also named Brooke. :-) Feel free to "spy" on my blog as well. Brooke might like seeing pictures and videos of my Brooke (she's a baton twirler!) Blessing, ~Kathryn